by Bob Lyons
You may have heard the following saying: “Life is not a destination, rather it is a journey.” From my perspective, I see this differently. Rather, as I see it, our lives are: “All journeys toward the ultimate destination: Heaven.”
So far, in my life journey, I will occasionally find myself taking a different path. There are a variety of reasons “why,” I have decided to take this incorrect path. Examples are; forgetfulness, laziness, selfishness, or other distractions. In my car, I have a Garmin navigation system, which I have on at all, times. As I am preparing to leave, I will set the location of my final destination. During my route, I will hear it saying things like; “construction for the next 5 miles, then a pause and a suggested re-route.” Or, if by chance I miss a turn, for whatever reason, I will hear; “re-calculating,” followed by the appropriate way to get back on course. I firmly believe that this system is analogous to my conscience, in this respect. When I am not going down the correct path toward my ultimate destination, I will hear God in the form of my dear family’s, as well as other loved ones voices. This concept, I feel is totally logical to me, as I know their voices, values and logic.
My current living arrangement is that I live in 3 different States. This navigation system is essential for me to guide me from one location to another. In life, if I make a wrong turn, I will hear God’s guidance, which will tell me how to get back on track to the ultimate destination; “Heaven.” After all, the word “guidance” means; “God yoU & I DANCE!”
I’ve heard the saying “Life is not a destination, rather it is a journey.” before but I’ve never really attributed it towards a brain injury or someone who has suffered a brain injury.
It’s a fitting, apt and beautiful saying.
Thanks,
James
I’ve also found understanding, insights and things to ponder on this journey. After 20 years, I’ve finally pulled together an ebook. Let me know if I can share it. It is about healing though being more aware of the process of life. We all have similar journeys no matter the issue. I do think Brain injury is a harder road for the individual than some other journeys… and I think it also helps to heal others…. because we are in their lives.
Congratulations, Brenda! Writing your own book is HUGE especially for a brain injury survivor! Yes, please email your information to [email protected]. And I agree, the Brain Injury road is incredibly difficult. Thank you for your post!